Love, the Universal Language

Recently, I had the privilege of attending an extraordinary event called DreamBuilder LIVE, the best personal development weekend event in the world!!!

This event holds a special place in my heart for many reasons and I continue to attend year after year. But what truly stands out is the gathering of like-minded, heart-centered individuals who share a common goal—to seek their dreams, pursue something better in their lives, and learn to create a vision and a dream for themselves. The participants come from all over the world, yet they all speak ONE language: the language of LOVE.

The most fulfilling aspects of attending this event are working on my own dreams and vision, but also serving these amazing people. On the first and second day, I have the opportunity to greet and welcome these incredible guests. Standing at the registration area, I make it a point to greet them with a warm smile, open arms, and an open heart. Even though I've never met them before, my intention is clear: to shower them with love and care, to let them know they are seen and valued.

Love knows no boundaries, no matter who we are or where we come from. It's like this incredible force that unites us all. We all want to be loved, don't we? And we all want to learn how to give love. Love is like that invisible thread that connects us, no matter our differences. It's what makes us human and reminds us that we're all in this together.

So, how can you be more lovable and how can you be more loving? How can you share and give love to others? That’s a question you can ask yourself. With my husband, I express love through words of appreciation and gratitude, telling him what an amazing husband he is to me, appreciating his hard work, his role as a loving father, and an incredible provider. I also share love through small gestures like getting him coffee or cooking his favorite meals, physical affection, and engaging in shared hobbies such as playing golf or taking evening walks with our two dogs. Love is found in the precious moments spent talking and being fully present with those we love and hold dear, like my children. I make it a point to remind them of my love daily, expressing pride in their achievements and assuring them of their inner and outer beauty and awesomeness. There are all different kinds of love. Sometimes I send a text to my mother-in-love, and I tell her, "Thinking about you. I love you." I call a friend, "Hey, how are you?" “Thank you for being my friend and I appreciate you very much!!” That is showing love. I might not tell her those words, but just by making a phone call and reaching out to my friend, that's giving love.

During the DreamBuilder LIVE event, I experienced a deeply moving moment that reinforced the transformative power of love for me. In a bathroom stall, I encountered a woman in distress, her tears flowing uncontrollably. There was a part of me that just wanted to walk out and ignore her, but my intuition told me to ask if she would like a hug. I hesitated for a moment but then asked her even though I was apprehensive. She said yes, and with her permission, I gave her a hug. She calmed down some. There we were, two women who didn’t know each other at all, hugging in the bathroom, sharing a moment of profound humanness. Sharing love and vulnerability. Our connection went beyond words; it was a silent exchange of understanding, support, and love. It reminded me that we have the capacity to offer love and comfort, even to those we do not personally know.

What I found out later was that the woman had just lost her best friend and I had been blessed with the opportunity to be there for her in a time of need. I ran into the woman later on in the event and she said, “You have no idea what that meant to me. You were a stranger and, yet, you gave me a hug without knowing me. Thank you for that. Thank you. I sensed and felt your energy. You gave me love.” Just that one act was worth my entire trip to the event.

Love doesn’t have to be in grand gestures though; it can be shown in the simplest acts of

kindness. A warm smile, holding a door open to a stranger, or helping someone carry their groceries—all these acts embody love. I firmly believe that by extending kindness to others, we spread love and ignite a ripple effect that can truly transform lives. When we give love, we get even more love back. The Universe blesses us in so many ways.

But, to truly give love to others, we must first learn to love ourselves. Making sure to prioritize self-love, self-validation, self-care practices such as breathing, praying, meditating, journaling and positive affirmations, allows us to nurture our inner selves. By embracing our worth, beauty, and lovability, we become a fountain of loving energy, more capable of sharing love with others. Remember, the more love we give, the more love we receive.

At the end of any of our lives, when we leave this earth, all we take with us is the love, the memories, and the time we spend with the people that we love the most. Everything else stays behind. Not the hours of work, not the dollars in the bank, not the jewelry, not your Rolex, not your house, not even your children. All that’s left is the love. Why not, just for today, be a little more loving towards others? Try it and see how you feel.