EASY TOOLS TO CREATE HARMONY IN YOUR HOME

Creating harmony in your home begins with one easy step—that step is to recognize the desire you have to change the environment in your home. Over the years, I've learned that building a harmonious household isn't a far-off dream, it's a reality you can absolutely have when you take the right steps.

Many of us fall into a routine that can be described as negative. We wake up each day, often feeling tired, and we can carry that toxicity with us. We may not even exchange a simple "good morning" or "hi" with our family members. This lack of warmth and connection sets a tone for the entire day that's far from loving .

One of the first steps in creating a happier, more fun, and harmonious home is recognizing that IF YOU WANT IT BAD ENOUGH you need to do SOMETHING ABOUT IT and MAKE A DECISION TO CHANGE IT. It's crucial to understand that change starts with you, not with anyone else. We don't have control over the actions of others, but we can control our own. I wholeheartedly believe in the quote, "For things to change you have to change." It's a powerful reminder that positive change starts with YOU. Taking just one small step each day can gradually shift the dynamic in your home towards the harmony you so truly want.

Look, I'm no stranger to negative habits. I used to wake up in a bad mood, barely acknowledging my husband and children, feeling tired, going about my day with a negative outlook and a long face. It's a cycle that's easy to fall into, one that many of us share. My husband, on the other hand, was the complete opposite. He'd wake up with a smile, radiating positivity, and ready to embrace the day. It took me years to realize that my negative morning routine was harming our relationship. It’s human nature to gravitate toward routines and stay in our comfort zones. But sometimes, these habits and routines can drive a wedge between us and our loved ones, leading to friction and distance.

Realizing the need for change was the first and most crucial step. I decided I wanted to break free from the negative cycle of habits that was affecting my relationship with my husband. The journey toward a happier home began with a shift in my own mindset and attitude. Even on days when I hadn't slept well, I chose to wake up and tell myself “I’m feeling good, happy and grateful for the new day.” My attitude was positive, and I started my day by saying, "Good morning" and giving kisses to my children and my husband. This simple change of mindset made a significant difference in our home.

Another simple, transformative step I took to shake up this pattern of mine was incorporating gratitude into my morning routine. Even when I felt tired or had a rough night's sleep, I made a conscious effort to think of two things I was grateful for. This small action is a profound shift from the negative mindset I used to wake up with consistently. Your thoughts have the power to shape your day. By thinking and expressing gratitude for your health, a roof over your head, your job, your family, etc. You set a positive tone for the day ahead of you. By telling yourself, "I feel great," you're manifesting that positivity into your day.

Creating a harmonious home goes beyond just changing your morning routine. It's about infusing love, care, and affection into your relationships. Taking a moment to look into their eyes and tell them that you love them or hug your loved ones and genuinely ask about their day can work wonders. And if your home is filled with raised voices and arguments, it's possible to change this too. By deciding to communicate in a softer, kinder, calmer and more loving manner, you can set a new tone for the experiences you have with your family. Yelling and screaming tends to create more yelling and screaming, so by maintaining serene, low voice communication arguments and fights are much more civil and short-lived. When you change your own patterns, others will naturally follow. Lead by example. Remember, it starts with you.

So, let it begin with you. Take that first step today, and watch how your home gradually becomes a happier, more harmonious place. You have the power within you to build a beautiful, loving environment for you and your family.